12w6d
Today was a LONG day!! I started it arguing with Jake and I finished it doing the same thing. My nesting, or rather cleaning, instinct has kicked in and his mess and lounging on the couch has REALLY started to get to me. I just keep thinking when we have a baby I don't want to have to clean up after him and after the baby.
Now who knows, maybe at that time he will be different, but I would really have a much lower blood pressure if he would just do it now. Our kitchen is a MESS and Danette just cleaned a week ago. Grr!! It took me about 2 hours of arguments and such to FINALLY get him to mow the lawn. Now granted since we have had no rain the grass was pretty dead, but the weeds were having no problem growing making our lawn look VERY trailer park trashy.
Once he mowed the lawn, I just gave up on trying to get him to do anything else and I folded a couple of loads of laundry and then went to another movie with Jess. After the movie Jess, Shane, Jake and I all went out to dinner. Where, of course, I became annoyed again. He is working for his dad while trying to find something permanent and so money is not something we are swimming in and I felt it was COMPLETELY unnecessary for him to order desert for $7 when he didn't even finish his meal.
Now I'm sure that some of this is the hormones but I'm finding it harder and harder to believe that I will make it to January without hitting him over the head with a skillet and burying him in the back yard!! :-)
2 Comments:
Your dislike for Jake will progress until it peaks - during labor. After that we will forgive them for not "suffering" with us, though we never let them forget it. Never.
Hang in there!
Now you know why most states (if not all of them) will not grant Divorces during pregnancy!
It is unfair that they don't get the nesting genes and us (the ones carrying extra weight - losing important vitamins and energy to a baby) don't get the I think I'll sit on my butt genes that they hog their whole life and could share just during this 9 months!
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